What Does It Mean to “Pack”? The Lowdown on Packers and Gender Expression

If you’ve been hanging in queer spaces or scrolling LGBTQIA+ threads lately, you might’ve come across the term “packer.” There’s also an increasing representation of LGBTQIA+ characters. Shows like “Sort Of,” “Sex Education,” and “Pose” have opened the door to trans characters — showing the realities of packing, binding, and transitioning.

In the LGBTQIA+ community, especially among transmasculine, nonbinary, and gender non-conforming folks, a packer is a tool that helps affirm gender identity. It’s real, it’s personal, and for many, it’s life-changing.

What is a packer? 

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A packer refers to a prosthetic phallus or phallic object worn in underwear to simulate having a penis. According to UC Santa Barbara, “Packing” means placing padding or a device in the front of one’s pants to create the appearance of male genitals (a bulge). These devices range from DIY solutions like rolled-up socks or gel-filled condoms to high-quality silicone prosthetics with a realistic-looking penis and testicles. The goal is a natural bulge that helps masculine clothing fit and look ‘right,’ creating a more authentic appearance.

Packers are commonly used by transgender men, transmasculine people, and some non-binary individuals. Like chest binding, packing can ease gender dysphoria and create a sense of normalcy for some LGBTQIA+ folks. Still, not all trans men or non-binary people choose to pack — and that’s completely valid. Packing is a personal decision and not something required for someone’s gender to be valid or recognized.

Drag kings and other assigned female at birth (AFAB) performers often use packers to portray male characters more convincingly on stage. Anyone aiming for a masculine silhouette can explore packing, whether it’s a trans man navigating everyday life or a cosplayer gearing up for a role.

And while packing is closely associated with trans and gender-nonconforming communities, it’s not exclusive to them. Some cisgender men have been known to “pack” to enhance their bulge for aesthetic reasons, though this is far less common, according to Folx Health. A curious cisgender person might try using a sock packer out of curiosity or to fill out their bulge. 

Is “packer” a respectful term?

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The word “packer” itself is not a slur or insult in the context of gender identity — it’s a descriptive term commonly used within the LGBTQIA+ community. In trans circles, “packer” refers to prosthetic devices, just as “binder” refers to chest compression tops. Saying someone is “packing” or uses a packer is considered appropriate when relevant to the conversation. The term is not offensive, and many trans people use it openly, especially when sharing advice or tips.

Still, context and tone matter. People outside the community might not recognize the term and could respond with confusion or immaturity if it’s not explained. It’s best to use the word “packer” in respectful, informed settings. In some cases, saying “prosthetic penis” can help communicate the meaning more clearly and avoid misunderstandings. This doesn’t mean “packer” is a bad word — it’s simply a specific term that not everyone knows. When used appropriately, the word ‘packer’ can open up conversations about how trans and non-binary people navigate the world.

What’s your take on how people use terms like “packer” in public conversations? Is it something you think should stay within the LGBTQIA+ community?

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