‘We don’t play about our babies’: Monica says she is fiercely protective of Kobe Bryant’s daughter Natalia

The R&B singer describes herself as an honorary aunt to the 23-year-old model, who credits Monica with being a dependable source of support and guidance.

Monica is making it clear that when it comes to Natalia Bryant, the protective instincts are real.

The Grammy-winning singer recently opened up about her relationship with the 23-year-old model, the eldest daughter of the late NBA legend Kobe Bryant and Vanessa Bryant. Monica, who has maintained a longtime friendship with Vanessa, considers herself an honorary aunt to Natalia and says she takes that role seriously.

Speaking exclusively with PEOPLE at the 2026 EBONY Power 100 Gala in Los Angeles, the singer offered a glimpse into their relationship, describing herself as someone who is not afraid to be direct when it comes to looking out for the younger Bryant.

Monica even joked that she is probably the most aggressive aunt, although Natalia offered a slightly different description of her approach.

“Not aggressive. We’re direct,” Natalia told PEOPLE, reframing Monica’s protectiveness as a sign of her straightforward personality.

Monica agreed, adding, “Because we don’t play about our babies. It’s no exception to the rule.”

For Natalia, that protectiveness comes with a sense of reassurance. She described Monica as someone she can reach whenever she needs advice, support or simply someone to talk to.

“Well, Auntie Mo here, she is seriously the most down to earth, so supportive. You can call her any moment, anytime, about absolutely anything, and she’ll always pick up and she’ll always be there,” Natalia said.

The exchange offered a glimpse into a bond that extends beyond celebrity friendships and public appearances. Monica’s relationship with Natalia reflects the kind of extended-family connections that are common in many Black households, where close friends can become aunties and uncles who play meaningful roles in children’s lives even when there is no biological connection.

Monica also has plenty of reasons to celebrate Natalia’s accomplishments.

The young model graduated cum laude from the University of Southern California in May 2025 while continuing to develop her fashion career. She signed with IMG Models in 2021 and made her runway debut for Versace during Milan Fashion Week in September 2023.

“I’m so incredibly proud of Nani, not only graduating from college, but aspiring to do everything in the fashion field,” Monica said. “Everything she puts her mind to, she does it. And it’s just amazing to see.”

Monica also connected Natalia’s determination to the work ethic associated with her father, who died alongside her sister, 13-year-old Gianna, and seven others in a helicopter crash in January 2020.

“It’s Mamba Mentality from top to bottom over here,” Monica said, referencing Kobe’s well-known philosophy of discipline, dedication and continuous improvement.

“But she’s just a hard worker, and she’s such a sweetheart at the same time,” the singer added. “I adore her.”

Natalia has continued building her own identity in the fashion industry while honoring her family’s legacy. Her modeling career reached another milestone in October, when she debuted at the 2026 Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show.

At 23, Natalia is continuing to establish herself professionally while navigating the attention that comes with being part of one of basketball’s most recognizable families.

For Monica, however, the accomplishments are only part of what makes her proud. Her comments suggest that her investment in Natalia extends beyond the modeling industry, public recognition and the Bryant family’s legacy.

Whether she is celebrating Natalia’s academic achievements or encouraging her as she pursues opportunities in fashion, Monica appears comfortable occupying a role that is both supportive and protective.

And if Natalia’s description is any indication, Auntie Mo is only a phone call away.